hintaylang ng call. hintay lang.

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krishna

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kay ganda ng ating musika…

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PRESSURE

hay. Gusto ko na umalis.

Yung iba nang ppressure na din umalis ako. Pero wala namang maitutulong ang pagkainip. Sinusubuka lang talaga ang pasesnsya ko. MAlamang, madami pa akong dapat matutunan at malaman dito sa field. Madami akong naiisip. Pero tinataboy ko yung mga negative. Walang matutulong yun. Hinga na lang ng malalim at tumitig sa kalendaryo. Puro ekis na ang kalendaryo ko at hindi ko alam kung kelan talaga. Pero hindi ako dapat mainip. (kahit inip na inip na). dadating din ang pagkakataon na hinihintay ko. 

Hayaan sila na nagtatanong.

Hayaan lang lahat.

Ipagpatuloy lang ang paghihitay,

dadating din yun. 

What Not to Say to an Introvert

What Not to Say to an Introvert

Introverts, those quiet creatures that walk among you, are not as mild-mannered as made out to be. They seethe and even will lash out at those who encroach upon or malign their personal comfort zones. Here are a few emotional buttons to avoid with your introverted companions.

• “‘Why don’t you like parties? Don’t you like people?’ is a common remark introverts hear,” says Marti Laney, a psychologist and the author of The Introvert Advantage. “Usually we like people fine,” she insists. “We just like them in small doses.” Cocktail parties can be deadly. “We’re social but it’s a different type of socializing.”
• “Surprise, we’ve decided to bring the family and stay with you for the weekend.” Anyone anywhere on the -vert spectrum could find such a declaration objectionable, but it’s more likely to bring an introvert to a boil, according to Nancy Ancowitz. Introverts count on their downtime to rejuvenate their resources; an extended presence in their homes robs them of that respite.
• Don’t demand immediate feedback from an introvert. “Extraverts think we have answers but just aren’t giving them,” Laney says. “They don’t understand we need time to formulate them” and often won’t talk until a thought is suitably polished.
• Don’t ask introverts why they’re not contributing in meetings. If you’re holding a brainstorming session, let the introvert prepare, or encourage him to follow up with his contributions afterward.
• Don’t interrupt if an introvert does get to talking. Listen closely. “Being overlooked is a really big issue for introverts,” Laney says. Introverts are unlikely to repeat themselves; they will not risk making the same mistake twice.
• Above all, “we hate people telling us how we can be more extraverted, as if that’s the desired state,” says Beth Buelow, a life and leadership coach for introverts. Many introverts are happy with the way they are. And if you’re not, that’s your problem.—Matthew Hutson

Source : http://www.psychologytoday.com/articles/201008/revenge-the-introvert?page=4